a beginner's guide to sex toys
by sarah ward

You deserve to feel good. 

Pleasure is the 
perfect place to start.

 

A Beginner's Guide to Sex Toys is your no-shame roadmap to discovering what your body actually wants — written by a Sexologist who's been in your shoes.

 

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You're not alone if you've ever wondered:

01

"Where do I even begin?"

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"But what if I buy the wrong thing?"

03

"Is what I want normal?"

04

Trust me. You're not weird or too much. And you're definitely not alone. 

The world of sex toys can feel overwhelming — but it doesn't have to.

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This guide changes that.

In A Beginner's Guide to Sex Toys, Sexologist Sarah Ward walks you through everything you need to know to find a toy that works for your body — without the awkward googling, the confusing product descriptions, or the expensive mistakes. 

Inside, you'll discover:

  • Every toy category explained — for vulva owners, penis havers, anal play, and couples
     
  • The material breakdown — what's body-safe, what to avoid, and why it matters
     
  • The truth about lube — and how to choose the right one for your toy
     
  • Care and cleaning — so your investment lasts
     
  • How to choose the right toy for you — based on your desires and your budget
     
  • Myth-busting 101 — because you've probably heard some things that just aren't true
     
  • Safety tips — so you can play with confidence

 

 

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Consider this your permission slip. 

Pleasure isn't a luxury. 

Knowing your body isn't selfish. 

And exploring what feels good — either solo or with a partner — is one of the most empowering things you can give yourself. 

You deserve a guide written with warmth, honesty, and zero judgment. And that's exactly what this is.

Meet your guide

I'm Certified Sexologist, dedicated to helping you deepen your relationship with pleasure, your body, and yourself. 

You might be surprised to learn that I didn't buy my first sex toy until my early 30s. (True story)

This guide is the very thing I wish I had when I was deepening into desire. 

This is for you. Because everyone deserves a knowledgeable, judgment-free voice in their corner. 

say less.

"Since many of us were raised to see sensuality as taboo, it mattered deeply that Sarah was so open and comfortable with the material. She gave us the permission we didn’t know we needed to explore our bodies and our desires at our own pace."

alex

What's inside?

01

40 pages of expert guidance 

02

Toy breakdowns by category and desire 

03

Material + lube compatibility charts 

04

Safety tips to protect your body 

05

Real talk from a real Sexologist

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One small investment to know your body better. 

$27

For less than the price of eating dinner out, you'll have a Sexologist in your corner — guiding you through every toy, material, lube, and safety tip you need to explore the sex toy aisle with confidence and zero shame. 

 

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$27

Ready to take your pleasure into your own hands?

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